Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Promised Pics

Well I promised pics and now after spending a half hour uploading and commenting on each pic blogspot will not let me do this on my old laptop - so I just may move on to facebook.  Sorry folks

Monday, June 4, 2012

Well hello again
It has been non stop since my last post but things should slow down a bit now.
Since our last post the big event was confirmation.

Archbishop Pinder flew in on Saturday and we did our regularly scheduled Saturday evening service at the AUTEC Navy base.  Sunday, we had planned for all of our parishes to come together for one combined service - and we pulled it off.

People came from the northern end of the island (where we are trying to build a new church), they came from the southern end of the island, they came from AUTEC, it was wonderful. The church was packed,  the Archbishop was great, and the reception afterwards was fantastic as, people brought tons of food and everyone celebrated together.  It was a wonderful sense of community.  Now if I can get the pics and movies out of Ginni's camera into this 'upgraded' blogspot we will be in business.

Ever since Confirmation, it has pretty much rained at some point every day.  To say that May and June are the rainy season was hard to believe last year, but this year it is totally living up to its name.  When it rains here an interesting consequence is crabs.  Yes crabs.  Andros is the home to a species of land crabs that pretty much live underground most of the time, but in the rainy season of early summer the crabs 'walk' and catching crab is a major  source of financial income for local Bahamians.

Driving from one end of the island to the other as we do, we see crabs trying to cross the road all the time, as well as car upon car pulled over as people fill burlap bags with these tasty delights.  In fact, next week our fair village hosts CRABFEST - a huge festival that will see people from the US and just about every Bahamian island on a pilgrimage to Andros for the event.  If you have followed this blog for awhile you will know that this is the only time we have traffic - yes, actual traffic with police from Nassau imported to direct it.  It is incredible and, while we usually try to drop in at least once, the crowds are a real turn off.

One of the consequences of the crab migration is that attendance at church drops off because everyone is up all night beating the bush with their burlap bags and flashlights looking for crab.  I do wish their priorities were a bit difference, but the money people can get selling crab is a very real way to augment their income.  Unemployment here is huge, gas is well over $6/gallon and costs for just about everything is way above US prices. (Ice cream, for example is $10 for a half gallon).

Another event that we just lived through for the first tiime was a national election.  The Bahamas has a Parliamentary form of governmnet and every 5 years they have an election.  The ruling party was voted out of office this year and we saw the transition from one government to another.  FYI whichever party wins the most seats in Parliament becomes the ruling party and the Prime Minister comes from that party.  The election was monitored by several Caribbean election monitoring groups - all went smoothly and the transition was a grand event with all the pomp you can imagine.

Getting back to ministry.  With the celebration of Confirmation over, and the start of June, we concluded our CCD and RCIA classes.  This gives us time - or so we thought.  We plan on returning to the US for 2 weeks in June.  Our son Mike is getting married in Oct and Ginni has planned a shower for his bride and I need to meet with them to prepare for the wedding (Yes I have  been asked to witness their wedding, Praise God).  So I will finally be able tosit down with them to plan the wedding.  Also - I hope to speak at a few MA parishes doing a mission appeal to generate funds so we can build that new chapel in North Andros - keep that in your prayers.  It looks like one parish will have me speak at 5 Masses!

Well I  gotta run - till next time

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Mea Culpa

Mea Culpa (Through my fault) my blog is not getting the attention it deserves BY ME.
My last entry was Palm Sunday and here we are at the 6th Sunday of Easter

Suffice it to say that with Ginni leaving for a month after Easter, my time is limited and the blog has suffered, sorry about that.  On top of that Blogger tells me my browser is no longer supported so we will  see if this gets published.

Easter was great - we accepted 4 people into the Church on the Vigil and I sang the new updated Exultet that the new edition of the Roman Missal provides - I will get no awards for my singing but I was pleased with it.

Since Easter my energies have been focused on CCD, and getting ready for Confirmation (THIS Sunday).  I actually just picked up the Archbishop and it looks like we are in good shape.  Sunday we will host our first combined service, where all four churches will come together for Confirmation (each church has a candidate for Confirmation).  We will still do Saturday evening at the Navy Base for those military personnel that can not come off the base, but then SUN we will only have the 1 service here in Fresh Creek.  We have never  tried this before so it will be interesting to see who makes the trek here.

Hopefully we will have pictures to post in my next entry (if I can do that with an unsupported Browser).

As I reflect on what has been happening here, I guess the most exciting thing I could share was the knife fight.  Picture this, I am doing communion calls to the sick of the parish and, after I walk in, two brothers, grandchildren of the sick woman, get into a fight.  An older grand daughter tries to break it up, the sick woman is yelling, 'Out, out of my house, Deac's here to pray', smash, crash, yelling - all from the kitchen where I go to try to break it up, only to find its spilled out of the kitchen into the back yard.  When I get there one of them, upon leaving the kitchen, has grabbed a knife, the other has picked up a 2x4 that was on the ground.  The grand daughter is screaming, the grand mother is calling the boys father, yelling into' the phone, "out, I want dem out a my house', then to me 'Deac, come, leave dem, let's pray'.  Meanwhile one is swinging the 2x4, cracking the other on the arm, while the other is swinging the knife, trying to strike a more leathal blow.

Well they finally separate, I get the knife and pull that kid into the house while the other, still clutching the 2x4 backs away and hides in the bush across the street.  I help clean the dirt and blood off of the one I had, calm him down, and we have a chat about the repercusions of him actually murdering his brother.  Lots of sobbing, crying, and eventually the situation calmed down and he and I could take a deep breath and say a prayer together.  Then the grand daughter takes him into the bathroom to clean him up and I return to grandma.  So we too pray for peace, then have our communion service.  With relative calm restored I eventually leave.  All week I worry about what would happen when the other brother returned. 

I called during the week to have grandma say it was all OK.  The father came to pick them up and beat dem with a hose.  WHAT?  Oh yes Deac, they learned to behave, everything is OK now.

Till next time.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Heading into Palm Sunday

Hello my friends - well it looks like this blog is becoming a monthly blog - but blog I will.

In my last entry I mentioned we have a visiting priest who had been creating issue after issue.  Well, over the last five weeks he has stopped using the laptop computer on the altar and has transcribed what he had on the computer into a notebook.  This eliminates the computer blocking everyone's view of the altar, defusing what was a major crisis for awhile.  So he still has the Sacramentary, and now his private notebook, but we're muddling through.  I do find it amazing that a priest finds the new Roman Missal 'too difficult to navigate'.  I thought using the Sacramentary was part of Liturgy 101 - but enough said.

Our Lent here is a busy one.  In addition to the CCD and RCIA classes that fill up our week, having a priest lets us do penance services - so we are doing THREE, one for each parish.  We have also added Teen Movie Nights on Friday's.  This priest worked in campus ministry and brought audio visual equipment to show movies for the teens.  To pull  this off we go to our Parish Center Friday afternoon and re-arrange the furniture, cover up the windows with blankets and set up his equipment.  When the kids get off the bus from the high school we are ready for them and start the movie around 4.  Around 6 we slip out and go over to the Navy Base and pick up 3 or 4 pizzas and get back just as the movie ends for a short discussion.  It is a challenge to add these extra activities to our already rather full schedule but we've been able to get it done.

Meanwhile - our work to grow the Church in North Andros continues.  The Archbishop has given permission to build and the locals have given about $7000 so far towards a total of $30,000 for a 30x30 building.  We already own land there and, with the Archbishops approval, we've cleared the land to get ready for putting in the foundation.  The rest will have to wait until we get more funds.

This is a pic of the site after the dozer has done its work, the old building in the background is what is left of the original church building.  On the other side of the road the land slopes down toward the sea.  With the site cleared we're only a few thousand dollars away from being able to begin work on the foundation and septic.

One interesting development with this community is that there is a large Haitian community here but the numbers of our little faith community fluctuates in direct proportion to the raids on the Haitian shanty-town by Bahamian immigration.  Right now they have been raided twice in the same week and we haven't seen anyone dare to come out of the bush to go to church.  It really is scary, one week we'll have a half dozen Haitian men, the next week they're gone - poof!

The past few weeks have been stressful on a few other fronts as well - two flat tires in two weeks, for example; followed by a bathroom sink that decided this would be the time to have the drain pipe rust out.  We lived for a few days with a bucket under the sink that, after using the sink, we would pour into the toilet.  I was able to get parts and replace the plumbing with only one small drip remaining.  I know how to fix that but it requires a part not on this island so it'll wait a week.

Next week, by the way, we go to Nassau for the Chrism Mass to recieve the holy oils for the next year (and parts for the bathroom sink).  This is always a special liturgy for me because, unlike Boston, Deacons are invited to join the priests for the renewal of their vows.  After the priest and deacon clergy, the women religious are also invited to do the same.  How inclusive is that!  It really is a powerful moment.

Well, between CCD, RCIA, Penance Services and Teen Movie Night I am a bit bushed so I am going to sign off.  This Lent is certainly living up to what Lent should be.  I just can't wait for Easter!
Till next time

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Happy Lent!!!

Hello again my friends -

Well, since my last post Ginni has returned and so has Lent (totally unrelated I assure you).  Our surprise this Lent was a call from the Archbishop telling us he was sending us a priest - arriving on Tues before Ash Wed.  He will stay with us throughout the entire season of Lent and thru Easter.  To say we were surprised is an understatement.  We usually see a priest once every 6 weeks or so, now we'll have a resident priest every day for 7 weeks!

We got the news while we were in Nassau. Prior to going to Nassua we had two major events on our radar screen.  First, Ash Wed is an annual ecumenical service with the Anglicans on Andros and this year it is our turn to host.  Prior to going to Nassau I had put together the program and sent it off to the Anglican minister.  With a priest arriving the day before Ash Wed I would have to scramble to change the program (of which 60 copies had already been made), in order to add a role for the new priest.  Second, the Saturday after Ash Wed we were going to have a huge funeral, and those programs have already been printed by the funeral  home.  A funeral in the Bahamas is a BIG deal.  The deceased was in his 40s and died a tragic unexpected death in a car accident so the turnout was going to be more than the church could hold.  Since we did not plan on having a priest the program did not include Eucharist, but was a Service.  Who does what and how would need to change.

So we return to Andros and I crank out a new Ash Wed program for the Anglican priest, myself, & the visiting priest that modified who said and did what during the service.  The people followed along and the night was a huge success.  What was unfortunate was that the visiting priest wanted to wear a Cope for an ecumenical service like this (a Cope is a cape-like liturgical vestment) and, surprise surprise, we don't have that type of vestment.  It was upsetting for him and not the best way to start off our relationship especially when complicated by the added stress of the Anglican invasion filling the church at the same time.

Once we got thru Ash Wed we sat down with the program from the funeral home and marked it up so we agreed on my roles and his roles, both at the church and the cemetary.  Despite the hysterics of a Bahamian funeral this actually worked out pretty well and the funeral went off without a hitch.

Our new friend is a retired priest from Florida and clearly has his way of doing things, and we are adapting.  The biggest surprise for us was the weekend liturgy for the 1st Sunday of Lent.  It turns out that he finds the new Roman Missal difficult to navigate so - - he has transcribed the common parts of the liturgy onto a notebook computer and, for those parts of the liturgy, he scrolls through the liturgy using his notebook computer on the altar, complete with a wireless mouse.  Well, having a computer on the altar has set off a firestorm.  Comments from both people on the Navy Base & Bahamians have been fast and furious, critical of a computer on the altar that blocks the view of the people, the inappropriatness of it, the scandal, the sacrilidge, et. al.  (pray for me).

So on Monday, after having had an earful from people throughout the community, we asked if we could talk about a few things to plan the next 7 weeks of Lent and we tried to address the notebook.  It was a difficult conversation, but he agreed to consider the objection.  Clearly we need to reconcile this topic or, I am afraid, people may stop attending until he departs. 

The Archdiocese has always been very supportive of us here on Andros and, knowing that, I gave a call to the Vicar.  It was very helpful conversation for me and acted as a sort of relief valve for the stress I was feeling.  He was very supportive and, in the end, suggested we do our best and monitor the situation and see how it plays out, but to keep him informed.  We really do want to work well and be supportive of this man as we serve the people of Andros, but if this persists it will clearly be corrupting their Lenten season and will have a negative impact on our Easter celebration.  We pray that doesn't happen.

While this plays out, it is not all negative.  He has, in the past, hosted Teen Movie Nights and has brought several DVDs and the equipment to show them.  We want to plan a weekly viewing, followed by discussion and refreshments.  It sounds like he has had some success with this, and he has a plan, so we hope we can pull this off too - it really could be quite good.

So, all in all - despite a few bumps in the road we continue to work towards growing the Kingdom of God, and what kind of Lent would it be without a few bumps in the road.  Praise God for the bumps of Lent!
Keep us in your  prayers - we appreciate all your support.

Friday, February 3, 2012

February Already!!!

Well I couldn't believe the last post I had here was Merry Christmas and Jolly Junkanoo.  It is February already and so much has happened.

As I write this, Ginni is back home in the US being a nurse to earn the money we need to stay here.  Let me explain - we do have a plan on the money issue.  We have a 2 family home in Canton and a log home on a lake in NH ski country.  Rental income from those properties allow us to be serving here in the Bahamas while keeping the mortgage, taxes, water bills, and insurance paid up. (If we could sell either of these properties we certainly would, but that doesn't seem to be in the cards in this economy).  The problem is that not all tenants actually pay their rent - its created a financial burden we hadn't expected.  The bad tenants have left and we had a few months between tenants so we are 'financially challenged'.  Ginni should be able to get the hours to help fix this, but it means she'll miss about a month of Bahama time.

So Gin is gone and I am doing the 4 weekend liturgies, and the 4 CCD classes, and the RCIA classes and the cooking, cleaning, laundry, et. al.  Getting time to blog is a problem!

As I wrote those words it struck me that for decades, the missionary priests that came here did all that I just described day after day after day.  When I read about thier lives and what they accomplished I am amazed.  Throw in the fact that for many of them, there were no roads, no air conditioning, not even electricity.  Heros, every one of them.

I do have one anecdote those of you from Boston will get a kick out of.  When we came here we brought all the baggage of the sexual abuse crisis in Boston.  The Bahamas has been spared this scandal and so the sensitivity to 'protecting God's children', while present, is not as in-your-face as it was in Boston when I left.  Bahamian parents tell me if their child acts up during CCD classes the 'beat dem deacon - if  dey be bahd beat dem'.  A major difference from Boston where hugging a child is frowned upon.

So anyway, Ginni is gone and I am driving the kids home after CCD.  Three of these teenage girls live about a half hour away and as we drive one of them says, "Deacon, when we get out into the bush can you pull over so I can get out and pee?"  I say, "Excuse me?"  She says, "When we get out into the bush please pull over so I can get out and pee."  I was blown away - all 3 girls thought nothing of this request - it was a perfectly innocent request from their viewpoint and expected me to just say "sure, go ahead".

Well, fortunately, our route goes past the Andros Town airport and we hadn't reached it yet so I suggested we stop there and they can actually use a toilet and they thought that was a great idea, so we did.  But I gotta tell ya, if we had gone 10 minutes more we would have been driving in the bush and it would have been an interesting dilemma.  Thank God I remembered the airport up ahead.

Other items of interest - the tail pipe on the van's muffler disconnected and I had tied it up with a wire coathanger until I found a parishioner who does welding.  I took it to him and he welded it back on, no problem.  When I offered to pay he was insulted.  "Dis be da choich van Deacon, I do dis for da choich".  A week later the other end of the muffler has the same problem.  The pipe from the engine INTO to muffler disconnects.  Once again its back to the coat hanger solution until I can find my parishioner.  Turns out he is off the island seeing a dentist and won't be back for a week. (Island life dictates when you don't have something you make due until you get it).  So my wire coathanger works for awhile but comes loose so I crawl under the van and wire up another one (to discover I had parked near some fire ants).  Anyway this lasted until he returned and in 20 minutes this was fixed and, once again, he refused to even consider any payment.  Good people.

This weekend we will have a visiting priest - the Archbishop.  We are into our 4th year here and this is his 1st weekend visit to go to all the churches.  It is unfortunate he is coming while Ginni is away but that's life.  This past year the Archdiocese sent a surveyor to map out all the church-owned land on Andros.  He will fly in Saturday morning and we will spend the day viewing all these sites so the Archbishop gets a sense of the property here.  The surveyor found some land I wasn't aware of and determined some that I did know about were much larger than I had imagined.  I am hoping some will be land the Archbishop may be willing to sell to help us with the costs associated with building a chapel in North Andros where there hasn't been a Catholic Church in over 40 years.

On that front - it occured to me that the Knights of Columbus  might be a resource to help us with the new chapel.  Coincidentally, the Grand Knight has an annual dinner to honor the clergy throughout the Bahamas and I was invited.  Unfortuanely I could not attend but I sent him an email, thanking him, then telling him about the opportunity in No. Andros and asking if the Knights could help.  Well I got a very nice email back, it turns out he grew up on Andros and would love to present the need to his brother Knights at their next meeting.  Who knows - this could be a huge help in making this a reality.  Right now the local Bahamians up North, and a few US donors, have reached the $6,000 mark.  I have one builder who quoted me $50,000 and another for $30,000.  All we really need is four walls and a roof (and a bathroom).  I am hoping I can get the costs down but buying materials and getting them here is a significant addition to the price.

Shifting gears once more.  You may be aware that the Catholic Church has changed some of the responses  at Mass to be truer to the original Latin.  For example, for years the response to "The Lord be with you" has been, "and also with you".  Well now its "and with your spirit".  Some people have picked up the new wording throughout the Mass, for others its been harder.  I saw this poster the other day and fell in love with it.


One other area this has affected is music.  At St. John Chrysostom in Fresh Creek the only instrument we have is a drum, and Ginni's guitar.  All the new music that has been adapted to the new words are written for organ or piano.  So my lovely wife took it upon herself to create an arrangement for the Gloria on guitar that uses the new words (as I said earlier, in island life you either do without or make do - so Ginni took the bull by the horns and made do).  It is a wonderful version of the Gloria and we are now singing it at all of the Bahamian parishes.  AUTEC is using a version from the St. Benedict Mass in the missalette.  If I can ever figure out how to post audio here I'll try to record a version of us singing it.  Suffice it to say this was a huge undertaking for Ginni and she did a great job.

Well I really need to sign off - this is the 1st Friday of the month and we have a Holy Hour of Adoration at the AUTEC Chapel I need to prep for.  Please keep us in your prayers
 - Deacon Frank

Friday, December 30, 2011

Jolly Junkanoo

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and a Jolly Junkanoo to you all!

Junkanoo is a uniquely Bahamian celebration with bands and dancers and floats and the parade goes for hours!  Literally, it starts at midnight on New Years and goes well into the morning hours.  To say the costumes and bands are dressed to the max is an understatement - incredible stuff.
Just as an example - here's a pic of just one Junkanoo dancer - imagine a couple hundred - and that would just be one of many, many bands marching in the parade.


Christmas here was wonderful.  We had our usual full complement of Sunday liturgies and with Christmas being on a Sunday this year it actually made things simpler.  Here is a pic of our altar at St. John Chrysostom, fully decorated for Christmas! 

New Years will be a lot busier than Christmas.  We will have our 6PM service at the AUTEC Base, then a midnight Mass at St. John Chrysostom in Fresh Creek, then we'll have our regular Sunday liturgies beginning with the 830AM for those at St. John who couldn't make midnight, then the 1115 in Cargill and the 4PM up north in Mastic Point.  Its the Midnight Mass followed by the 830 that'll be the killer.

Midnight on New Years here is called Watch Night Service.  Its a British thing where the people want to be in Church to pray in the New Year.  It will start at 11 with carols and the liturgy starting at 1130 and running through midnight.

All in all we continue to grow the Kingdom of God here on Andros and we pray 2012 will be even more fruitful than 2011.  May God bless you all as well

Till next time